اس گردشِ جہان کا مارا ہوا وجود
لے جائیں ہم کہاں بھلا ہارا ہوا وجود
جزوی سا جسم لے کے ہی پھرتے رہے ہیں ہم
اب آ کے تیرے لمس سے سارا ہوا وجود
آدم کی لغزشوں کی سزا سَہ رہا ہے اب
دیکھو بہشت سے یہ اتارا ہوا وجود
اشکوں کا رِس گیا تھا نمک آنکھ سے دروں
میٹھے سے جا کے یوں سبھی کھارا ہوا وجود
پوجا ہے آفتابِ محبت کو ایک عمر
تب جا کے خاک سے ہے ستارا ہوا وجود
ہر سوچ میری فہدؔ ہے کندن سی اس لیے
بھٹی میں عشق کی ہے نکھارا ہوا وجود
Happy life with chest and purity by the way of NIKAH is based on best marital relationships. If there is no mutual love, affection and complete harmony in the marriage life, then the life of wife and husband become very difficult to maintain. This is one of the key feature of Islam that it has made humans responsible for mutual rights and responsibilities and bound them to follow rules and regulations. By doing so the decent nations of the whole world either Muslims or non-Muslims can achieve countless benefits of the marital status. Therefore, the divorce which the messenger of Allah (peace and blessing of Allah be upon Him) has declared as “Most hated act” in lawful and legitimate acts near the Almighty Allah, must be avoided, even if potential or should be minimized in our society. There are many causes of divorce in our Pakistani society and among the significant lake of proper religious education and guidance, family and domestic disputes, complex judicial system, exchange marriage, negative role of media, adverse effects of cellular phones, improper usage of Internet, extreme and excessive use of social media, second marriage, undue obedience of parents and drug addiction are included. This article not only indicates the significant causes of divorce in Pakistani society but also describes the details of their procurement. If corrective measures are taken for these root causes, there is a high hope that the divorce rate will be clearly reduced.
The purpose of this study was to enhance the learning environment through Appreciative Inquiry Approach (AlA) in a government secondary school of Karachi. The study focused on one component of the learning environment such i.e. the students' participation in classroom discussions. In government schools, the culture of problem-solving focuses on deficiencies and ignores the positive aspects and the strengths of people. In the problem solving approach, we assume that there must be something wrong and we look for it with the intent to solve it. AlA is an alternate approach initiated as a reaction to the problem-based approach, as it is a search for "the best" of what already exists. Therefore, using this approach, my hypothesis was that every person, organization, system, and community has something that works well, and boosts up the moral and confidence of people. The learning environment (in this case, through enhancing students' participation) can be enhanced through searching for what is good and working well. The qualitative Participatory Action Research (embedded in an appreciative lens) was employed since it suited the aim and purpose of the study. Two teachers were selected, one who was in favour of using AlA and the other who was opposed to the idea. Reflective journals, notes of classroom observations, semi-structured interviews, reflective meetings, and study documents were used as data collection tools. By conducting this study, the potential, possibilities and challenges of using strength based approach in the teaching and learning processes have been explored. The findings indicate that the students' participation can be enhanced by using strength based approach, which encourages them through positive words, gestures, and especially highlighting their strengths. This study has ample value and significance for research participants who want to enhance their students' participation in classroom discussions. It would help them to reflect on their existing understanding and practices (e.g. what they do, why they do, how it contributes to the learning environment, etcetera). The study has implications for teachers in their professional life as well as their social life.