ازواجِ مطہرات ، زیادہ شادیاں اور عرب روایات
اعتراض نمبر ۹۵
نجران کے یہو دیوں نے سرکار دو عالم ﷺ کے خلاف ایک یہ الزام دھرا کہ آ پ ﷺ کی یہ ساری محنت اور جان ماری اس مقصد کے لیے ہے کہ جو مقام و رتبہ حضرت مسیح ؑ کا چلا آ رہا ہے وہ آپ ﷺ کے قبضہ میں آ جائے اور عیسائیوں اور دیگر افراد کو آہستہ آہستہ اپنے آہنی شکنجہ میں جکڑ کر اپنی پرستش اور پوجا پاٹ میں لگا لیا جائے ۔
جواب: اس اعتراض سے پہلے اس کا پس منظر بیان کرنا ضروری ہے تاکہ حقیقت سامنے آ سکے ۔ یمن کے ایک شہر نجران جو تہتر گائوں پر مشتمل تھا وہاں سے ایک عیسائی وفد ساٹھ افراد پر مشتمل سن ۹ ہجری میں آ پ ﷺ کی خدمت میں حاضر ہوا ۔ ان افراد میں رئیس الوفد عبدالمسیح تھا ‘ دوسرا شخص ایہم جو سیاسی امور کا نگران تھا اور تیسرا ان کا لاٹ پادری اور روحانی پیشوا ابو حارثہ بن علقمہ تھا ۔ صحابہ کرام ؓ عصر کی نماز ادا کر چکے تو اس وقت یہ وفد ،مسجد نبوی میں آ یا یہ لوگ بھی نماز پڑھنے لگے صحابہ کرام نے منع کر نا چاہا لیکن آ پﷺ نے فرمایا انہیں چھوڑ دو ۔ نماز سے فارغ ہونے کے بعد آ پﷺ نے ان پر اسلام پیش کیا اور قرآنی آ یات تلاوت فرمائیں لیکن انہوں نے اسلام قبول نہ کیا اور انہوں نے کہا ’’ ہم آ پ ﷺ سے پہلے کے مسلمان ہیں ‘‘۔ آ پ ﷺ نے فرمایا تم نے جھوٹ بولا ۔۔۔ تین چیزیں تمہیں اسلام سے روکتی ہیں ۔ اول صلیب کی عبادت دوم سئور کا گوشت سوم تمہارا یہ گمان کہ مسیح ؑ اللہ تعالیٰ کا بیٹا ہے ۔ (نعوذ باللہ )...
In this universe, the most important relationship among the humans is marriage, other relations exist on the basis of this relationship. In the Holy Quran, the relationship of spouses has been mentioned as a source of mutual peace and love. In our society, it is said that women organize a home, but in reality a home can not be establish alone, spouses together make and adorn it with painstaking efforts. Man plays pivotal role in the relationship of spouses. So the responsibility of stability of the family lies on the man much more than the women and its reason is superiority. We find many examples from the marital life of our Prophet(S.A.W.W). This paper will highlight the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.W) about the role of spouses in the establishment of a family.
The alternative conceptions of students are very important in determining the nature of science education in our schools. The purpose of this study was to investigate the alternative conceptions of students about “Energy”, “Living”, and “Chemical Change” and to assess the effectiveness of instructional strategies for changing students’ conceptions. During first phase of the study alternative conceptions of 267 students of 6th, 8th, and 10th classes from four Government high schools of Quetta were investigated through Interview about Instances (IAI) approach. The information about socioeconomic background, age and family of the sample students were also collected during the interview. The alternative conceptions of the sample students about ‘energy’, ‘living’, and ‘chemical change’ were found to be similar to alternative conceptions held by students of different nationalities / regions as reported in international research literature. The socio economic background of students did not appear to have any relation with their alternative conceptions. Similarly, no significant differences were found in the alternative conceptions of the students of different ages or classes. In the second phase, a two-tier conceptual-diagnostic “paper and pencil” test in Urdu language was developed to assess the alternative conceptions of students about the selected science concepts. This test was later used as posttest. Third phase of the study assessed the effectiveness of proposed instructional strategies. Sixteen (16) science teachers of two experimental schools were given training about instructional strategies in a training workshop. The science teachers of experimental and control group schools taught the related chapters of the textbooks in their respective classes. 25% students of class 9 of the experimental and control group schools were given the posttest. It was found that the alternative conceptions of the experimental group students about Energy, Living, and Chemical Change, were similar to the alternative conceptions of the control group students. The hypothesis that alternative conceptions of experimental group students were closer to scientists’ concepts, than those of control group students, was not proven. The findings of this study have significant implications for investigating the alternative conceptions of science teachers about teaching and learning; approaches to teaching; and the classroom instructional practices. The findings call for developing and using diagnostic techniques to elicit students’ alternative conceptions and for developing a repertoire of context based effective instructional strategies. It was recommended that science teachers should be involved in impact assessment process of their professional development activities and be encouraged to improve their instructional approaches to achieve desired conceptual changes among their students.