المبحث السادس: بروين شاکر وفکرتها عن العشق
یوجد في أشعار بروین شاکر تجربۃ ذاتیۃ لحبھا وعشقھا، فقد کتبت بعض القصائد من تجربتھا الخاصۃ وحبھا القدیم ولکن کان لھا القدرۃ في أن تبقی السر سراً وکانت طریقۃ بیانھا مھذّبة لا تفشي أسرار حُبّھا۔
فقد کتبت بروین قادر آغا[1] عن بدایۃ حب الشاعرۃ وعشقھا الأول۔ قد أعجبت الشاعرۃ بشاب، وکان موظفًا حکوميًا فشارکتہ في أحلامھا وآمالھا، ولکن ذلک لم یکن رغبۃ الشاب فھو کان لا یُرید الزواج منھا لأنہ کان یختلف عنھا في النسب والحسب وکان یختلف عنھا في الفرقہ الدینیۃ، بأنہ کان من أھل السّنہ والشاعرۃ کانت من أھل الشیعۃ۔ فرفض ذلک الشاب الزواج، فکان ھذا أمرٌ صعبٌ للشاعرۃ لأنھا کانت تحب ذلک الشاب، ولکن بعد فترۃ أحسّ الشاب بالندم علی ما فعل مع الشاعرۃ فرجع لھا وأراد الزواج منھا، فأحست الشاعرۃ بالفرح ولکن والدیھا لم یرضوا بذلک الشاب والزواج منہ، فأحست الشاعرۃ بالحزن مرۃً أخری وتقطّع قلبھا من الألم والیأس، وعاشت أحزانھا معھا إلی أن تکوّن عندھا قابلیۃ علی إظھار مشاعرھا وأحزانھا۔ وکتبت الشاعرۃ الکثیر من أشعارھا توضح وحدتھا وألمھا۔
ثم جاء لھا خاطب آخر، فوافق والداھا علی زواجھا فتزوجت الشاعرۃ من نصیر علي وأنجبت منہ إبناً أسمّتہ (مراد) وعندما تزوجت الشاعرۃ أحست بالفرح ولذۃ العشق في أول أیام زواجھا، ولکن بعد مدۃ من الزمن حصلت خلافات بین بروین شاکر وزوجھا وحصل البعد بین الزوجین، فأحست الشاعرۃ بالیأس والحزن والوحدۃ وفراق الزوج فقامت الشاعرۃ بإظھار مشاعرھا وآلامھا وأحزانھا في قصائدھا بشكل صريح ۔
[1] بروین قادر آغا عمۃ الشاعرۃ تعیش في إسلام آباد، وھي أیضاً شاعرۃ رائعۃ۔
It is widely recognized that Small and Medium Enterprises (SMEs) are the major drivers of sustainable economic growth, sources of income generation and panacea for poverty reduction in developing countries. Unfortunately, they are faced with numerous challenges that threaten their existence and survival. This precarity of small entrepreneurial organizations in entrepreneurial ecosystem has prompted widespread attention by scholars and researchers. Hence, it is critical to take into consideration examining the performance of the enterprises. This study analyzed the effect of entrepreneurial orientation dimensions, personal and institutional characteristics on the performance of small and medium agro allied enterprises. Through the multistage sampling procedure, a total of 198 SMEs were selected for the study and data were collected with the aid of questionnaire. Data were analyzed using multiple regression analysis. Results revealed that among the entrepreneurial orientation dimensions, only risking taking and innovativeness significantly and positively affected the performance of SMEs agro allied enterprises. Furthermore, findings showed that except for size of business which was negatively related to the growth of SMEs, educational level of entrepreneurs, managerial and business experience positively and significantly impacted on the performance of SMEs. Policies to encourage SMEs invest in risky investments and create new product and services should be pursued.
The present research was carried out to explore the adult attachment and its association on the marital satisfaction among couples in Pakistan. The main objective of the current study was to find out the relationship of adult attachment for marital satisfaction among couples and also to find out the relationship of husbands` attachment dimensions on the wives’ marital satisfaction and impact of wives’ attachment dimensions on the husband marital satisfaction. Present research further explored three factors i.e. conflict resolution, social support, and communication competence and their role as mediating variables between attachment and marital satisfaction. The research comprised three studies. Study I deals with translation and determination of psychometric properties of Experiences in Close Relationships- Revised questionnaire (Fraley, Waller, & Brennan, 2000); Enrich Couple Scales (Olson, 1996); and Social Provision Scale (Cutrona & Russell, 1987). Part I of study- I deals with ttranslation, adaptation, and cross language validation of the instrument. Part II deals with pretesting Instruments on a small sample and also determines the construct validity like Confirmatory Factor Analysis (CFA). Initially the researcher translated the scale into Urdu language and then carries out pre-testing on a small sample of 48 married individuals. The results of pretesting indicated that all the three instruments were showing satisfactory reliabilities indices. Afterwards the translated instruments were ready for Confirmatory Factor Analysis (CFA) on a sample of 300 married individuals. As results of CFA reduced final instruments were administered to a sample of 96 married couples (192 individuals) to verify the psychometric properties and testing the preliminary hypothesis in pilot study. Correlation coefficients were computed as indices to verify the magnitude and direction among various variables. Finally main study was conducted with N=350 (175 couples) on diverse groups on the basis of age, education, income, family system, length of relationship and number of children. There are three mediating variables, such as, conflict resolution, social support, and communication competence which are hypothesized to mediate the relationship between adult attachment and marital satisfaction. Consistent with hypothesis the research shows that three separate models were drawn to check the path analysis in AMOS software and these models are based upon Actor Partner Interdependence Model (APIM) and it is found that conflict resolution is contributing as a mediating variable between attachment and marital satisfaction. For example anxious female is affecting her own conflict resolution as compared to avoidant female who aeffects the partners` marital satisfaction. Communication competence of both partners is fully mediating the relationship between avoidance and marital satisfaction. Similarly, social support is fully mediating the relationship between both partners` avoidance and their marital satisfaction. Finally, it was concluded that couples with anxious and avoidant attachment reported less marital satisfaction and there is a significant role of conflict resolution, communication competence and social support in strengthening the marital satisfaction. In the end, the findings are discussed in light of Pakistani cultural context and its implications in the Pakistani society.